Mordax et al

You do realize that some people don’t get to pick their kins, right? It can be mentally harmful for some to suppress spiritual or psychological part of themselves (aka kintypes) as well. But even so, if you would take all this into a PM format and talk one-on-one with people who are doing racist/trasphobic/ableist/etc things, that would make your case a lot easier to make and they wouldn’t be able to say “STOOP ITS ALL #DRAMA!!1!”