Would you ever, or have you ever, engage in sex with a man?
I should probably put that I’m bisexual in my info I guess.
Do I have sex with men?
Yeah.
I have in the past, currently engage in, and plan to in the future, have sex with men.
I love men. There are days when I might say I like sex with men better than sex with women.
I love how men smell. I love men’s bodies. (cis bodies and trans bodies). I love how men tend to be up front and open with what they want out of sex. I love how easy it is to get a man turned on, and how difficult it is for him to hide it. I love the inherent way that fucking or just being intimate with a man is shocking and taboo. I kinda miss when it was an outright crime.
I love how you can be rough and violent with a man in bed and no one assumes it automatically means some kind of deep psychological issue where you want to control or hurt an entire class of people (women).
If I ever settled down I could see it being with a man as easily, maybe more easily than with a woman. I love the inherent lack of an automatic power dynamic expectation between two men. I love that with a man it’s easy to be pals first and lovers second. I love the (usual) lack of worry about bringing a kid into the world when you have sex with a man.
I’ve had lots of sex with men through the ages, and lots of relationships with men. You’re gonna ask, so yeah, I’ve had sex with Logan. He probably doesn’t want to remember it, but I do. Had a long term boyfriend/partner throughout the 70s and early 80s– Frank aka Constrictor. Relationship fell apart when we both kinda fell apart as people for a while. It happens. Had plenty of other relationships with other men before and since.
And then there’s Mystique. Even if you don’t count having sex with Mystique as having sex with a man depending on the sexual organs involved at the time, I’ve also had sex with a bunch of men I didn’t know who later turned out to have been Mystique. So. Yeah.
Hope that answers your question, pal.
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